What if they were wrong Patricia? My mother was overly critical and a perfectionist, however I have to forgive her, she was doing her best and couldnt help herself. She was wrong to not allow me to do anything my way and criticise, But I have let that go, and now it's on me to stop negative self talk.
We alcoholics are experts at being hard on ourselves. Any alcohol whatsoever brings back that negativity, for me anyway. You will feel better tomorrow.