Hi all,
Good for you, Ladybug! One day at a time.
Letitgo, I understand your trepidation about the wedding. When is it? I have a family wedding in January and there will a lot of drinking. It's good that your have your hotel room to escape to. I think you have every right to make your exit when you please and you don't have to be pressured into drinking at the wedding or the after party. We respect ourselves, we don't drink. When I go to the wedding (of my nephew) it will be first time I'll be around my brother and sister where I will not be drinking. They are both big drinkers. I know they will give me a hard time of it, say I'm dull or boring or some such thing. Last family wedding 5 years ago I was drunk and making a fool of myself. I remember I thought I was oh so sophisticated and witty, not! So not going to happen this time.
So, hold steady, post here if you can during the wedding event time. We will support you. I know I'll be posting!