Yes, Secretdrinker, I did have that discussion with him. He says he is truly sorry and that he is making changes too. We shall see if that is true. I'm at the end of my rope with him though. It seems at times that HE is my problem, that I could be sober without him around. I manage to get several days sober often, and it is always something adolescent-like that he does, that sets me off on an angry drunk. But that could just be the AV talking.
Of course I know he has put up with a lot of s**t from me, so maybe I shouldn't be so hard on him. I just don't know...
What I do know is the next time I feel that anger at him surging, I will come here and vent and get some helpful advice from all you lovely folks
