but sometimes there is not a grey area, (for me ) so then what ? I/ we are supposed to just accept someone else view/ opinion/reason /action, as the "norm" and smile and embrace the situation?
I can't do that.
Maybe I need to learn to cut people off when they start telling me of situations that I just can't be objective with. Or have a strong opinion about. that very well may be what needs to happen, when I hear certain words, stop them in their tracks and say I am not the one to be discussing this with. the end.