My marriage has survived after 17 + years of drinking and drug use. By the grace of my higher power, it has survived.
Are we "fixed" - NO WAY. It is not all roses and peaches but we are living, One Day At a Time.
I can say this - it takes both parties to make it work, the A and the Co-dependent. You both have to work on yourself FIRST before working on the marriage.
Just my honest opinion.