Labgirl, I'll say to you what others said to me: it isn't too late: there is always hope when there is another day.
Just catching up with posts and so good to see how well people are doing. Secret, you are amazing
Great job! Rio, how are you doing?
Today I've been out enjoying the weather all day. Long dog walk and then gardening. Met friends at a beer garden, which might sound like a nightmare, but I am not a beer drinker anyway, and the food is amazing, and I indulged myself
Fricka, I could totally relate to what you were saying about how obsessing on someone can make you feel like your problems are less, well, problematic. In my case, I usually picked people with problems, including addictions, which would make mine seem "smaller." Oh the things we do to delude ourselves.
Hope everyone has a great night--Day 12 tomorrow!