Thank you yes the home illusion is correct with alcoholic boyfriend..he will always choose the easiest route which supports his lifestyle..if his mother gives him her house he'll take it & itll be nothing about making a home. I rent my own place (with difficulty financially)..I cant afford to buy as is hard to get work which pays when I suffer so from depression..I guess my priority now is to treat the depression (which my alcoholic boyfriend has just been a bad distraction from).