Have to say what I'm thinking.
Hi Frank,
I've been reading your thread since the beginning. I originally started on the other side, dealing with an alcoholic friend.
I must admit I've become a little smitten with you, until you couldn't reveal your age. All the angst I have felt dealing with my alcholic friend came flooding back. The inability to be forthright. Avoiding questions, are you all the same?
What's the big deal? You are a man. Be proud of your age. It seems all your banter is superficial. I am disappointed.