Originally Posted by
splendra 
I figure it's none of my business where they go...
What is my business is do I want to put up with the disappearing act? and other BS...
...and other BS...
It's not where they go it's when they come back and expect to see things they exact same way they were weeks ago. They could drop something on the middle of floor and get upset at you for moving it-you messed with my stuff. Or they show up after mid night and wonder why you are not jumping for joy treating them like a conquering hero.