I like birds Jen . My parents had a parotkie < spell ? It would get in the sink under water drips & fluff his feathers up .
That will need some deep thinking on your Irish man Do "Pro's & Con's " that's how I decide things
Or listen to your gut - not your heart . Sometimes the heart doesn't always know best ... I ended up with getting my heart broke , but I had that feeling before I jumped . ( should have listened )