When is enough enough?
I'm new to alanon and I need help. I'm not married to my a but we have been together almost 3 years. This may he used heroin again and ended in the er. He started aa for the first time and his drug and alcohol addictions have become the center of his life. I travel for work and have minimum energy for the drama of our lives. I recognize that my life is unmanageable from drug and alcohol use with ppl I have dated in the last and my current relationship. Right now I'm wondering: when is enough enough? I'm not confiden in who he is and I'm not sure so do know him. I think I want to break up, take a break, reset- but is that running away? Or simply facing reality? I'm desperate