It's a shame that we have to get up to all these antics when it comes down to a perfectly simple and respectable life choice but business is business and there is no accounting for certain attitudes. I'm straight up about it with close friends and family but find I scramble around for a card to play (driving, training, antibiotics...) when it comes to other relationships. Maybe I will feel more confident about the "new me" a little further down the line and be fine about shouting my abstinence from the rooftops but for now there's still often a bit of dodgeball going on in certain scenarios.