Yes - partner (not married) of 18 years. No, I'm scared to be honest with you guys. Despite all my bravado about being in 'the naughty class', I don't think I'm in the same league as a lot of people on this forum. Just don't seem to have what it takes, and I don't want to bring you down and/or incur criticism, because I crumple under it. I'm the proverbial 'wuss'. Press send.