Glad you're here SJ, welcome.
Most of us here would still be drinking if we could have avoided the consequences. We typically did not get here on a winning streak and had to truly face the issues that lead us to drinking and the results of our escapades.
For me, drinking was the solution to my problems, or so I thought. In sobriety I learn from others how to deal with life and problems sans booze.
We are all on this journey together and to help each other by sharing our experience, strength and hope. Glad you joined us and look forward to having you around!