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Old 08-19-2015, 07:42 AM
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hopeful4
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He sounds like a really great guy. I am so happy about that for you!

Look at his actions, and then judge who he is. Look at how he treats you and others. That is how you should judge his character.

I would say to just enjoy yourself!

I am also going to say something here. In my FB profile I still have photos of my X on a couple of trips we went on w. our kids and family. I have not taken them down for a couple of reasons. As he said, I don't have those pics anywhere else, so if I delete them, they are just gone. I want those for my kids. I should take the time to go print them off, but honestly, it's just never been a priority. I use FB as a storage tool for lots of photos. Secondly, I don't want my kids to think I am trying to forget that time in our life. Those trips were a lovely time, and something I will remember fondly and I want them to do the same.

I cannot stand their father now, but that does not negate the good times we did have.

Just my .02 my friend!
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