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Old 08-09-2015, 10:59 PM
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CactusJane
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Originally Posted by maia1234 View Post
CJ- Are you going to any alanon meeting? They are so helpful. In alanon they recommend that you don't make any big decisions for at least 6 months. You don't have to do anyting today. Wait and see.

Work on yourself and make you a better person. Not angry and pissed all the time. It sounds like you are very angry and you have every right to be. He has done some horrible stuff. Work out your issues. Get healthy. At that time you can make the right decision that you might not regret later on in your life. We all do things out of anger when our heads are not clear.

Take time, educate yourself and see what happens. You never know what your future holds, God knows are plan, but he won't share it with us.

(((((((((((((jane)))))))))))))
thank you... six more months maybe...
I've been so badly depressed since I left him that only this month (Aug) have i been able to get out of the house and about on a regular basis. I'm living with him again (separate rooms just like before I left) half the time and on my own the other half.
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