My AH has never faced and legal consequences in all the years and sadly, it just does not matter. You have to take the focus off him and what is or is not happening to him and shift it to you and what is and is not acceptable to you and your children. He even once told me he has never been arrested so it was not so bad. He further went onto say there is no moral police and I can pound sand. At times I get so angry just thinking of the dialogue between us. It was not until I stopped focusing on him did things ever start improving. I understand wanting him to reap the consequences of his behavior, but it is not up to us to make that happen.