Hey LemonGirl, as a fellow Left-Coaster I'm concerned about the camp fires. Maybe you could tell whoever owns /manages the campground? It's extremely dangerous with the drought we're in, I mean look what's happening up north right now. Drunks, cigarettes, weed, campfires and our super dry conditions are a disaster waiting to happen.
I know *you* are not on board with the campfire which is good but this is serious. If the wedding party won't voluntarily give up the campfire idea maybe they should be forced to.
And good for you, changing your life and your priorities and sticking up for your kids.