SR just ate my nice long post. Curses!
To paraphrase:
V I'm so sorry you have to have surgery. Sending love and hugs.
Arbor I'm really glad you're going to check out AA. Just setting foot into the recovery community is a huge step, and I think it will be good for you whether AA turns out to be your thing or not.
Child and fire are both fine, and I am toast. Goodnight guys.