Ha-anger? After my ex went to rehab for one week and was "cured" last November we met for lunch after a couple of weeks of him getting out. I asked him the natural questions-bc he wanted to come home-how do you plan on staying sober, what are you going to do to address your issues, what boundaries are you going to put up to protect your marriage from your family? He started pressuring me into "you need to make a decision, now-I'm not waiting anymore for you to decide-make a decision!" And "my sister can say whatever she wants about you-she's my sister, what do you want me to do?". Checkmate. You're done, dude. Go live a long happy life with your true loves-your mom, sister and alcohol. God, do these guys ever grow up? What am embarrassment to guys who are actually real men.
I slept peacefully last night. Worked through the anger. It felt good. I don't know how long this will last but it feels good knowing it won't last forever.
Thank you all!