..so what are you looking for here?
I feel quite at home within this forum. I can relate to other's posts. I can't discuss what's talked about on SR with my friends.....I really value the frankness of what's said on this site.
I had many unhappy, discontented years as a young woman in a marriage that wasn't working for me. Once I had found the courage to walk away, by insisting on a divorce, I started to find out who I am and what suits me.
My childhood has shaped me but I try to shape my adult life by staying relatively independent even when I'm dating a guy. I've learnt new things about myself in every relationship and I only seem to get attracted to the "wild" ones but that's also my choice. I count myself lucky because I am content with my life now.