It is what I treasure most about SR and what has kept me around, even though I feel pretty solid in my sobriety. I know others will say it like they mean it. The only way to achieve sobriety is to get completely honest with oneself and so the people who are giving me advice know true honesty. Having been around this site for almost two years, I can pretty easily divide the posters into two groups: Attention seekers and True Seekers. You have to leave the "attention seeking" part of yourself to the side to find what you are truly looking for in sobriety, if that is what you are truly seeking.