I love coffee and tea so I drink the decaffeinated variety in the evening.
With meals, I like to treat myself to different sparkling juices. I love ginger beer at the moment, made with fresh fiery ginger. Nice replacement for wine.
Soda water and lime is a nice drink when out socialising. I do have the odd non-alcoholic beer, very rarely now though. Most of them taste terrible!!
Best of luck,
B