the behavior of a big-boy means being responsible and accountable...which of course, is no fun.
I really think you need to challenge these implicit notions Jeff?
I actually enjoy being responsible and accountable. I enjoy balancing that with some downtime too - which I also spend responsibly because I accept I have a duty of self care to myself.
None of that is a chore. I love what I do whether I'm working or not.
I have a *lot* of fun - more fun that I ever had drinking.
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