Hi Ken - I totally get where you are coming from. The only time I see my family is if they are on there way to something else and happen to be in Dallas. I have invited all of them to come visit, but not one has unless they are here otherwise. It used to bother me big time, but over the years I just tried to soften my heart and accept how things are. If they say they are in town and want to stop by, if I am not busy I say OK. It is not ideal, but it is something. I used to feel slighted, but not anymore. It has more to do with THEM than with me. I hope you will see your nephew. Who knows, maybe a visit will strengthen the relationship and he will visit you more often. I am sorry you are hurting. (((Ken)))