Ruby - good luck with the mother-in-law, they are always special in one way or another!
I agree on the safety thing, although may have broken some rules with Mr. Fireman. But taking it pretty slowly, and he is respecting me and my speed. I really have not actually dated much, as most men turn out to be idiots long before I even consider meeting! I wish there was some kind of sign that said "you two are made for each other" and then you are automatically at the relationship stage without the awkward dating stage!