Originally Posted by
ChloeRose63 One time my boyfriend was tired of my lying and he marked a paper bag and I used it to dump my beer cans in a neighbor's garbage. He asked if they were mine and I said "No, there are other people that dring beer, ya know..." But, I was caught because the garbage bag was marked. All trust was gone in one second. My heart broke.
I had to change. I was so upset with my lies and my addiction. That was the final straw...I still think of that sunken feeling when I am tempted. It makes me sick.
I've had that kinda situation flipped on me the other way. IE the person in your shoes freaking out on him for not trusting you. and then the person in your shoes not trusting him anymore. crazy as this sounds.