yes to all posts...the place is a family place but lots of partying to a p[oint...in my house nobody will be drinking and I would be watched very carefully.As far as the wheels in motion yes you are so right been there and did it to an extream...so I have that goin for me,meaning I know how fast it can happen withought a thought.I know I wont stay long....I will do some fishing on my own,,,stuff like that just want to go for a bit and when I get past this hump well you know