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Old 06-27-2015, 01:15 PM
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Melissa0067
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13 View Post
It sounds like you are a kind, generous person, but it would be very easy to slip
back into an enabling / caretaking role in this situation way too easily.

He really should be "in charge" of his own recovery and becoming independent after rehab, don't you think?
Hawkeye... I do agree, but at the same time he does not get his check until the first and they are letting him out on a Sunday with nowhere to go. I don't think that is right. He does have to be down the cape to work Mon/Tuesday and could possibly stay with that person for longer. And I think he has work lined up for July/August. So I was thinking if he stayed here one night, Sunday, the he could have time and money to get things in order, look for a sober house, etc. I can't see how going back to sleeping in his truck the first night is helpful to someone trying to do the right thing. Maybe I'm wrong.
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