zenchaser - lol that is awesome! I remember when me and ex had been split around 6 months, my son and I were at a coffee shop, and an old friend came in - this guy is in his 60's (I am 35!), he is a drummer, big guy with big hair and white beard. My son said to him "will you marry my mom, you would be a great step-dad". I was mortified! Apparently my then 6 year old son thought he looked like Santa, and what kid would not want Santa as their step-dad?!