(((((One day)))))) sorry about your friend. You are a good friend to go see her. I'm guessing they out your friend on morphine, it's verrry common in hospice. And it makes you kind of gone for a couple of days. I'm hanging out with my best friend and her mom right now, moms in hospice too. She's on a pretty heavy regime of morphine and adavan. Morphine in her case takes pressure off her chest. In cancer, it's pain management. My friends mom got used to the drugs after a few days and perked up a bit. I hope your friend has almost all good days on her journey...