Learningagain, I'm sorry you are between a rock and a hard place. Terribly worrisome. I'm of the opinion that the truth as you know it is the safest course. No guessing or speculating as to things but only the answers that you know personally, to the questions as asked. And no drinking about it. What Bimini said. I can't drink at my problems anymore either.
I'm hoping we get your storm. It's threatening here. Very active lightning but off in the distance. Breeze kicked up. We'll see as the night progresses.