Originally Posted by
sg1970 
I would think if she really wants to make it work she can give up the 2 glasses of wine a month. That would be simplest.
Agreed, but right now that's not going to happen. She feels that she can enjoy a glass of wine at dinner in a social setting and it will not be an issue. I'd much prefer she stop all together. We've talked about it and I'm not going to push it, as she has been successful doing this for 16 months. (Certainly no guarantees).....
However, if she continues, my goal is to help her make it successfully, and that's why I'm here.