I forgot to add - he has reached out to my family members ( dad, mom & grandmother) stating he is doing the step in recovery in which he makes amends and needs to see them all or speak with them on the phone to apologize and "own up to" everything he's done.
I'm sure this is a real recovery step - however, it still makes me uncomfortable that he is just not detaching from myself and my family altogether.
I have never wanted to pack up and move so badly. I feel like this state just isn't big enough for the both of us anymore...