I'm very introverted by nature so I hate anything that calls for making me the center of attention. My sponsor insisted too that I pick up the all the chips in early sobriety because it is helpful to others to see that the program (AA) works. She always encourages me to share and I find that annoying. Not everyone is wired the same way and sharing , picking up a chip, etc. causes me anxiety and anxiety is what was the main trigger for my abuse of alcohol. I definitely understand where you are coming from.