Oh no charley, I know it's not funny; but your remark about hating elevator music tickled me. I happen to dislike it too. Its only good for relaxation and that's it.
Have you ever told your counselor you post on this site? The reason I ask that, us because you are very good at expressing yourself. If the counselor read what you have to say...he would get a much better understanding of whats going on at your house and with H. I feel like he's only getting one side of the story and that bothers me!