Excellent thread, Gabe. Too often our relationships may appear dull compared to those we see on TV or in movies. But the drama described in your thread is exactly what makes a bad or unhealthy relationship.
Life itself can be dramatic enough without drawing it into a relationship. In a healthy relationship all those things that create drama should be left at the door and perhaps replaced with passion based on the security of a peaceful coexistance combined with healthy and loving feelings for each other.
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Ann