Just shooed the guys out of the house. Son needs a lot of activity and some friends. He's had none this weekend. A lot of the cleaning I do is sorting and discarding. He can't really do that. Asked husband to take him to the park. Husband didn't want to because he said, son will complain about it after son sassed why can't I lay around all day? Dad does!
Husband goes out of his way to justify deny and defend what he does but he's not getting it. The kids are picking it all up like little sponges. When I was telling my son about people taking my card number and using it to steal stuff, he said "daddy doesn't drive by there, does he?" So son is absorbing that daddy isn't to be trusted around money and it's quite sad. I mentioned it to husband and then he lectured son about falsely accusing daddy. Our son knows his own truth and what he sees. Crap. I probably should look into alateen. We're going to need it