Thanks everyone for your advice
. Since I am away from him, its easier to detach. I feel my husband is at the end stage of alcoholism and I have accepted the fact that he will never stop drinking. Even though I,knew there was nothing I,could say or do to change that, I still kept thinking that one day I would get through to him but now I know that's not possible. He has lost a lot of weight, has had 2 painful experiences with Pancreatitis and that didn't make a difference. Plus, he continues to have digestion problems but doesn't care. I can't help him but I need,to start taking care of myself better.