Gah, accidently posted too soon, touchy keyboard.
Anyway, I am remembering how immature and self centered he can be, and how he does not seem to understand how his behavior affects others. I made it clear to him that I did not want to see him or meet her and to get a storage unit or send a pod. Hopefully this will be resolved soon.
Again, thank you all for your shoulders, this is all very emotionally confusing and it helps so much to get it out.