I read a book called Kick the Drink by Jason Vale. I would recommend it.
In time you will be able to stop romanizing the idea of a glass of wine associated with having fun.
The truth is its more fun without it. It opens the doors to your best self and creating the life that you deserve.
I substitute wine with flavored seltzer now. And I still use my fancy glasses, I just don't wake up with regrets and a hangover.