It is a struggle in the beginning for everyone. It just takes time, patience and the determination to not give in no matter how strong the cravings are. The good thing is you have people around you that have been there. You have people here that have been through this as well.
I wouldn't recommend comparing sobriety since everyone's process is different and it can be discouraging. Just keep on focusing on moving yourself forward and realizing if you don't pick up, you don't have to go through this ever again.