Okay, and finally, being entirely hypocritical here, I know, but I would be slightly wary of only dating AA guys. They are recovering ALCOHOLICS. Take a look at the Friends and Family section here. I spend a lot of time there because of my mother's alcoholism. A relapsed alcoholic is a freaking nightmare and a detriment to our own sobriety. I know this is wrong, but I love that my husband can drink 1-3 drinks or no drinks and it is a non-issue to him. I have never had a fear that he was an alcoholic or would become one, even with his father being an alcoholic. I would just tread carefully. Again, sorry if this makes me sound like a jerk.