Old 05-26-2015, 12:07 AM
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mecanix
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Cool saout ,
Getting back to the sober routine will be helpful , it's worth while seeing what you can add to your sober experience .

Go on a flying lesson , water ski, sing in a choir, join a running or hiking club, volunteer at weekends with cats and dogs home, evening classes ..

all of these will be social and fun , drinking will be a negligible part of the social side which you can skip and it won't really be noticed . These people won't know a different you .

We no longer get a social life by default through being bar flys , hanging round with other self involved drunks talking rubbish we can't remember, rinse and repeat .

Effort is required now to do interesting things and that will hopefully lead to interesting people to get to know .

Stay the course , whats the next right thing to do ?

Bestwishes, m
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