So much for my plan - my brother called once in the morning and once in the afternoon, and I did not answer either time. I never turned on the volume on my home phone so have no idea if he called that. I just didn't have the mental energy to deal with it. I cannot stand listening to the horrible things she says to him. I think he is emotionally battered and unable to make a decision.
I am watching the Red Sox and turning in early. I will read the posts and respond tomorrow.
My best to all of you!