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Old 05-21-2015, 10:27 AM
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Lola23
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Join Date: Jan 2014
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Conversation with friend

Wanted to get you guys' thoughts on this, b/c it happened to come up with a friend "Jeff" w/o any prompting from me. This was the conversation was over IM today:

Jeff: I managed to only drink 1/2 a bottle of wine last night. I'm always proud of myself when I do that.
Me: Yes. Well, that's why I cannot keep any in my house anymore.
Jeff: B/c you will finish it all?
Me: Yes. We've had this conversation many times. I don't see the point of having just one or two glasses of anything. I drink to get drunk. I'd finish whatever I had in the house and want more. Which is why I need to quit.
Jeff: Everyone drinks to get drunk. If they say they don't, they're lying. We all drink to relax and have fun. I don't think that means you need to quit.
Me: Well if I got drunk off of one glass, maybe I wldn't see it as a problem.
Jeff: You just have a high tolerance. I don't think that means you need to quit.
Me: *change subject to the local sports team*

I've expressed my concern to Jeff many times, but never really the extent of how much I drink.

I don't even know what I'm asking, just wondering what you guys think...is he just delusional? Or am I? ugh, I don't know sometimes.
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