Ishallnotwant that was such a beautiful post you have me in tears but the truth is I was that kind of person brought up well my my grandparents. Then I was bullied physically abused raped by two men discriminated against because of my gender in a job I gave 20 hours a day. Not their fault I know I was ALWAYS an alcoholic. Hard not to be cynical sometimes though. Sorry don't mean to be sob woe is me