Originally Posted by
RedDog735 
I've been thinking about this one for a little while and I can't really find out WHY I want him to think like me other than the fact that what he's doing is WRONG. And so very hurtful to me. I don't want him hurting others like he did me. I don't want others to "go crazy" in the process like I did. It has nothing to do with not wanting to be alone (although I can't do that either) and so much to do with just how SICK he is and how he's basically a waste of life at this moment.
Regardless, I can see that I can name a million and a half things that he does that are wrong. And that gets in the way of focusing on me. BUT ITS JUST SO UNFAIR!
He is sick, and it is very unfair, and so, so hurtful.
And back to you - why do you want someone like that in your life when you deserve so much more?
Hurt and anger and the need to 'help' someone fix their wrongs blind us to our own wrongs. Just like alcohol can blind them to theirs.