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Old 05-18-2015, 12:02 PM
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Yes RedDog.... You remember all of the horrible things he has done and keep it at the forefront of your mind until you can finally accept that those horrible things are who he is.

I fully understand how difficult it is to reconcile in your mind and your heart the total mismatch of traits you know about a person.... about a man.... we get some weird insight into all the secret beauty that hides inside, all the while, he spews his venom on everyone who who cares.
Poison tends to spread my dear.

It's really more of a psychological (spiritual) journey that person is on.... Always looking for a boundary, a limit.
And wouldn't you know it....? We are exactly the people that cannot give that.

Having been in your shoes.... just remember to be kind to yourself.
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