Originally Posted by Sisterbobby

Things at home are about the same, no one mentioning the big white/pink, whatever color that big darn elephant is. Sometimes the elephant is so smothering, it's hard to enter the same room as my hubby, but that's how we deal with our issues. Ignore them and they will eventually go away.
I think that is where i'm at, on the crossroads of going back or moving forward.
I can't go back, I'm not going back. There is nothing back there for me. That's his drinking world. It's the waiting.

Yes I need a tune up. Maybe another trip.